Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Residence Hall Safety at Rutgers

Most of this post was written as an intended comment to the coverage and discussion of the recent suicide of a Rutgers student by Jezebel.com. But as I was writing it, it became something longer, but something I still wanted to put out there for people to think about.

For the specifics of what went/is going on I'm going to direct people to the article and comments I am responding to: http://jezebel.com/5650995/rutgers-sex+spy-victim-commits-suicide and the new articles they link to at the end of the post. The basics of the situation is that a Rutgers student was recently taped (without his or his partner's consent) having sex with a same-sex partner by a webcam planted in his dorm room by his roommate and another student. The two students then broadcast the video on the internet. They were arrested, and charged with invasion of privacy. Devastatingly however, the victim (of this invasion of privacy? assault? hate crime? see the discussion at the link above) is now believed to have committed suicide on the 23rd.

This breaking of this story is causing a lot of discussion about criminal charges, legal issues, hate crime, harassment, young peoples' lack of empathy and respect, university culture, suicide and depression etc. but I want to bring up an additional factor: student safety at Rutgers, specifically student-housing resident safety:

I am a graduate student at Rutgers and also just this month moved my little sister into her Rutgers dorm for the start of her freshman year. On move-in day my parents and I were simply flabbergasted by the condition of the locks in my sister’s residence hall. Her co-ed dorm (which is supposed to be by far one of the best Rutgers has to offer according to word of mouth) is set up in a suite-style: 3 two-person bedrooms with a communal bathroom and common room. Each suite of course has a door, and each bedroom has a door. However, while the suite door has a “security lock,” the bedroom doors have “privacy locks” (to use housing office terminology).


What is a “privacy lock”? Essentially, a lock that does not work. Residents are given a key to their bedroom privacy lock, but it is not necessary. Anything will open a privacy lock: the official key, my dad’s car key, a quarter, my thumbnail, shoving the doorknob with enough force. It basically functions just long enough for the resident inside the room to, as my sister’s RA put it, shout “Wait, wait, wait! I’m changing! Don’t come in yet.”


My parents did all they could to keep from guffawing with astonishment when they discovered the ineptitude of this ‘privacy lock’ and its apparent normalcy. They went, as one would predict, to talk to a housing staffer about getting the lock fixed or replaced. What they were told is that the university can replace the lock, but only at the expense of the resident; “Privacy locks” were a normal and unproblematic issue. In other words: if you cough up the $200 to buy a new lock for us, we will keep your child safe. And of course, if you don’t, we are not liable for any loss of valuables.


This is an outrageous enough demand, but what has further frustrated my parents is the university’s attitude toward their concerns. They have responded as if my parents’ refusal find this security policy acceptable puts them into the category of the crazy college-student parents that one hears about in horror stories. Seemingly oblivious not only to basic assault and sexual assault statistics in general, but also school-specific violence and sex crime issues (Collegetown creeper anyone?), and complacent towards the theft in the Rutgers/New Brunswick area, they point out that there is after all a quite functional lock on the suite door.


But what anyone who has lived in campus dorms can point out: 1) that still leaves free access to a resident’s private room open to 4 additional people (beside the roommate) and anyone these people invite into the suite; 2) dorm culture often finds residents leaving their suite doors open, in (falsely-secure) efforts to foster community and camaraderie--- and this is a common practice in this particular dorm; and 3) even though there is card-access to the building, it is usually not difficult to gain access to a dorm if you are a friend of someone inside, loiter around the entrance long enough, are a delivery person, or are an official or official-looking university staff or maintenance person.


This means my sister, and any other resident, is actually unable to reasonably and confidently protect her/himself from not only theft of valuables (such as a computer, which a lot of Rutgers students can probably not afford to replace) but also from breaches of privacy, sexual or physical assault (remember, a lot of sexual assailants are people known to the victim), grey-areas of participation in illegal or banned drug/substance use going on in the suite (at many universities, even if you are not using the drugs/alcohol or know about their presence, if your door is open, your room is considered part of the space in which the illegal activity is going on)---- and let us remember school shootings, something for which most universities now claim to have protocols and security measure. But what do security officials usually advise individuals to do in these situations? Barricade yourself in your room. My sister cannot really effectively do that unless she has the time to push her dresser against the door. Additionally, all this applies to situations in which the resident is conscious and present, and if they are unconscious, for example, if they are, oh I don’t know, sleeping?


To get back to the events of the original Jezebel post: I’m not saying Rutgers’ housing/security policies or conditions are responsible for the independent malicious and harmful intentions/actions of these students, but I do think they should be asked to account for creating conditions in which crimes like this are extremely easy to perpetrate.


In my opinion, the university is demonstrating clearly that they do not care about their students’ (especially female students’*) safety, privacy, and therefore well-being. A call for replacement of old and dysfunctional locks in campus housing is not an outlandish request. But especially now, in light to the budgeting crisis, the university seem more interested in increasing enrollment to cover costs, pouring money into the underwhelming football program (see this opinion article for just a taste of the football issues http://www.dailytargum.com/opinions/let-athletes-choose-their-own-paths-1.2337417), and luxury construction projects like the new ‘welcome center,’ than actually spending money where it is needed and in the interests of its students.


While, I am only familiar with this one dorm and cannot speak to the conditions of the dorm involved in this particular criminal case, it is something I intend to investigate and needs to be investigated in general. As my sister’s dorm is “one of the best” I am going to speculate that the security measures in the other dorms are likely to be the same, if not worse.


This is an issue that I think other people and other Rutgers’ families need to hear about. With student/parent outrage at the continuing tuition hikes and the moving of costs to ‘student fees’ (which are often not covered by many forms of financial aid) this is yet another cost a student is expected to absorb (or not absorb at his/her own risk), and yet another example of the university’s inability or unwillingness to put the student first.


*This is a “female” issue for me simply because of the statistical likeliness of females to be sexually assaulted. But clearly, most (even all) of the concerns I’ve touched on are issues that affect all genders, and as this article/incident demonstrates, we should remember this should certainly include those of non-traditional genders and sexual orientations. In addition, I do think this is an ‘income’ issue and thereby possibly a racial issue, as those with resources are more able to purchase their child’s safety and absorb the financial costs of theft and trauma.


P.S. If you are familiar with the Rutgers dorms, especially if security measures in other buildings vary greatly from what I have described, or if you just want to send some information or corrections my way, please do.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

My love affair with Kristen Stewart continues

Since Kristen seduced me with her BAFTA speech, I have found myself feeling more and more protective of her. She did her duty as a presenter (probably invited in order to draw in the younger viewers) at the Oscars last weekend. Even though she was one of the few ladies who took the stage that did not have serious difficulty going down the stairs, the blogosphere hated on her for clearing her throat between sentences. I never realized coughing was such an ultimate faux pas!

Likewise, Joan Rivers (who, granted, is mean to everyone) spat some venom her direction. As her co-commentors tried to mercifully point out that K Stewart was cutting a pretty good rug on the red carpet as someone who was normally really bad at it or "anti-red carpet, anti-glam," Rivers tells her to then "get out of the business." I mean, seriously, how excessive! A talented, promising actress should not be forced out of the business because she feels uncomfortable with interviews, expensive dresses, and wild displays of self-importance.

But was perhaps more irksome was the response of some of my fellow Oscar-watchers. As Taylor Lautner and K Stewart came onstage to announce the tribute to horror movies, several girls around me started to boo:

Girls: (generally) Boooo!!!
Girl 1: (about Taylor) I like him. Don't boo him, boo her.
Girl 2: Yeah, she is so annoying. I'm not booing him, I'm booing her.
Girls: (at K) Boo!

I'm just as willing to jump into a hate-fest on Twilight and Bella, but people's ability to distinguish between the actor and the character seems to be rather selective, especially when it comes down to gender. I feel like in general no one is really blaming the Twilight boys for the fan frenzy that follows them around. Sure some people complain that RPatz is ugly and that they don't understand what all the fuss is about, but they don't seem to blame the rabid fan-girl pestilence up on him personally. It is rather the fault of the rabid fan girls. Taylor's plague of fan-girl locusts is slightly more tolerated by the critics, mostly because he is not RPatz and general Team Jacobness. But again, he is not blamed for the phenomenon. Rather the two male actors are often depicted as victims of insane, tween, vampire wannabees. However, this coutsey seems not to be extended to Kristen Stewart.

Instead she is hated on for (1) being Bella (and I find this the most sympathetic argument), (2) being popular, and (3) struggling with her fame. The boys of course have the likability of their characters working for them, but issuse (2) and (3) should be just as applicable to them as it is to K Stewart. However, instead the public seems to covet and sympathize with RPatz and TL, while booing Stewart off the stage and telling her to stop feeling sorry for herself. It is hard for me not to this as arising from (a) female viewers jealously of Kristen Stewart for being linked to these handsome men (and being gorgeous and popular) and (b) the unfair standards of perfection set for celebrity women rather than men. While it is ok for men to complain about being harassed by fans and tabloids, when Kristen Stewart-- a young and developing person-- struggles with the limelight, she should apparently throw in the towel, pack her bags, and never show her face again. It is additionaly irritating to hear her take such disproportional flack for the Twilight phenomenon, when compared with her male costars, especially since, let's face it, she's got the better credentials. Stewart has definitely proven herself to the industry and looks on track to continue to do so. Don't see Lautner or RPatz with a BAFTA, do we? If anyone should be staying the game, it should be K Stewart.

I was glad to see Stewart some what stand up for herself when she appeared on Leno. Defending her cough, for which she has been much ridiculed, she points out if she had not cleared her throat she would not have been able to finish the sentence, which she reckons would have irritated people more. Also, she adds that she finds the whole 'cough' controversy quite funny because she had been in fact so proud of herself that night for getting through the lines and the evening without any serious embarassments.

And I say, yes Kristen, be proud! It is the rest of us snarky women that should be ashamed.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Puppy Love: Michael Sheen

I have decided to be in love with Michael Sheen this week. For some reason, seeing the fantastic, versatile, fun, adorable actor at the Oscars this year threw me into a fit of rapture and adoration. Almost weeping tears of joy, I exclaimed to my fellow tv watchers "It's Michael Sheen! Michael Sheen! I love him!" None of them cared at all, so in a fit of self-indulgence I am going to celebrate him briefly with this post (I cannot wait to see him in Tron!).

Not only is he super cute, charming, and a beautiful actor but he makes following his career quite an enjoyable romp, going from serious dramatic films to imaginative, scifi films. And he makes all of the random characters majorly attractive.

For example, he rocks the dated hair as suave David Frost in Frost/Nixon:




















He, of course, places Aro in New Moon. Here he is being an awesome dad at the premiere:





















But he has also played Tony Blair in three different films, most notably of course, The Queen:














and the classy (but so passionate) Lucian from Underworld. What a dreamboat!





















And I cannot forget his terrific, flamboyant, snobby, yet tragic Miles from one of my favorite films, Bright Young Things (which I think might warrant its own post one of these days). Here he is with another of my puppy loves, Stephen Campbell Moore (and Fenella Woolgar).

In addition to being all the various sorts of stupendous he is, he is also really really funny. If you love him anywhere near as much as I do, check him out on the Graham Norton Show and fall in love.

Friday, March 5, 2010

Angelina's evil plot against the world

So this week the tabloids, gossip columnists and other lame people have been having brain aneurisms over Shiloh Jolie-Pitt's hair. Egad! It is short! It is boyish! FREAK OUT!!!

"WHY IS ANGELINA TURNING SHILOH INTO A BOY??????"

This is just ridiculous on soooooooooo many levels.

(1) Who cares? Maybe the kid likes to dress that way. Has anyone bothered to ask her opinion? Thought not! And besides, it could have a very logical explanation: My parents kept my hair quite short because I fussed and cried so much when they brushed my hair. Don't like have your hair brushed kid, fine, we'll make it so you don't have to have your hair brushed. Sounds like a good plan to me. Did I feel oppressed and traumatized about it? No!

(2) Who on earth really thinks Angelina has some sort of radical counter-cultural plot to turn her child into a boy? Insane people. And you know, plenty of parents go out of their way to protect their kids from limiting gender roles. It is nothing new. It is nothing to call social services about. In fact young girls who display more androgynous characteristics tend to have higher self-esteem.

(3) Taking on gender roles and encouraging your kid to defy them is pretty darn awesome! We should all do it more often. Go Angelina!

(4) And wait a just a flipping minute, how is this all Angelina's fault anyway??????

(5) I'm sorry but WTF!!!!!!!! is with the comparisons to Suri Cruz? Who on earth decided that she was the penultimate example of little girlhood? Is the press really trying to pit two celebrity CHILDREN against each other? Really? REALLY? Can't we at least wait until they are a tad older, and maybe, I don't know, can read and write? AND since when are Suri and mom saints with their high-heeled shoes and designer purses that we all spat out our spleens over last week? You can't have it both ways people!

(6) This whole issue is so freaking stupid I makes me want to spit!!!! We are supposed to live in a new modern and accepting world full of liberal minded PC people. And it is suddenly ok to go all bad-mother-finger-pointing because a TODDLER is tomboyish? How on EARTH are we supposed to accept ADULTS who transgress these apparently set-in-stone rules and regulations.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **is a figurative one-person riot**

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Beautiful People

Maybe my strong dislike is now being manifested as suppressed affinity, but she just looks so classy in this outfit. It is impossible not to like her. I cheer her on as she steps out for the premiere of her boyfriend RPatz's new film (Daily Mail). I am glad she finally gets to show off her beauty and her boyfriend.

And this kindling of esteem for ole K Stewart must have made me look with more admiration upon Kiera Knightley, of whom I've gotten incredibly sick over the years. But she is really cool in Bend It Like Beckham and she look lovely here at the Laurence Olivier Award nominee luncheon party (jezebel.com).

In other news, isn't it sweet: Carrie Mulligan and Shia Lebeouf are dating (jezebel.com). Cuteness!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Cinematographically Gluttonous part 2

In keeping with the subject of my previous post, I also thought it might be fun to point out some films that really quite bad, but look oh so pretty. Their storylines are terrible and their acting is usually pretty terrible (though not necessarily), but their art direction, production design, costuming, make-up, and cinematography are pretty darn great. Or in some cases, at least brief bursts of greatness can be found and you can feel glad that the tons of money poored into these movies was well-spent for at least that portion of the film.

Et maintenant:

Marie Antoinette

Lots of people hated this film, and to be sure it is not great. But Sophia Coppola sure has a great eye. It is definitely worth a quite watch for it's neon candied, girly fun, soft pastoral tones, and pop art take on late 1700s french fashion. The slightly punked, revisionist attitude that flows throughout the film is something fun to experience as well, and the film does feature some very well-executed, subtle scenes.



I also personally love love love the scene of M-A and her daughter in their country retreat (sorry that is in German). Skip ahead to 4:43 for the most beautiful part:



Twilight

This film, this whole phenomenon gives me considerable mental, emotional, artisitc, metaphoical, symbolic, and spiritual agony. However, some of the imagery in this film are quite stupendously enjoyable. I personally loved the baseball scene, especially when the evil vampires crash on the Cullen's family show-off time with their wind-blown hair and clothing. Also, love love love the slow-motion as Alice (?) hits the ball and Bella's hair gets plastered to her face. This video has rather blah quality unfortunately.



Van Helsing

This film is ridiculously bad. But Dracula and his vampire brides are pretty terrific and they look GREAT! (The greenish vampire spawn that explode into goo, not so much.) I wish I could find you a non-fanvid of the masquerade scene but I can't. Here is the trailer, bask in its terribleness.



Star Wars: Revenge of the Sith

Ok, not that this film is anywhere near as bad as Twilight or Van Helsing, but it is pretty weak. I found myself severely dissappointed by this film, so much so that I cannot really make strong enough excuses for it. However, I was crying during Padme's funeral although this might be because she looks so bloody beautiful.